BEYOND THE HOBBY

Discover what sits behind an interest

Ask how a passion began, what memories are linked to it or what it means to that person.

UNDERSTAND PERSONALITY

Choices and plans often reveal values

Future plans, lifestyle and priorities can emerge naturally.

ATTENTION

Show that you genuinely listened

Remembering a small detail days later can show more interest than asking endless questions.

DO NOT LOOK FOR A COPY OF YOURSELF

Differences can create an excellent conversation

Curiosity about something unfamiliar can be highly engaging.

QUALITY DIALOGUE

Notice whether the other person wants to understand you too

Good conversations involve questions, attention and ideas from both sides.